Did you miss the few days “off” from our Holiday Reading Challenge? Well, we’re back at it today with Total Eclipse of the Heart by Zane which is Book 8 of the challenge. For the RAWSISTAZ who have been around a while, you’ll remember Zane was one of our earlier members and a member of our review team for several years. We can all say we knew her before she became so famous. 
So, let’s get the chat started. We will be here throughout the day, so come in and out as your time allows.
TOTAL ECLIPSE OF THE HEART by Zane
Atria, December 2009
336 Pages, Hardcover, $25.99
ISBN-10: 0743499298
ISBN-13: 978-0743499293
BOOK DESCRIPTION
Brooke Alexander, a waitress who has self-esteem issues regarding her lackluster existence and her fluctuating weight, is in love with Patrick Sterling, one of the most prominent attorneys in Washington, D.C. On his good days, Patrick is the man in every woman’s dream. On his bad days, Patrick’s behavior is demeaning and he is angry at the world.
Damon Johnson, who’s been married to Carleigh for four years, is one of “the last good men” — compassionate and honest, he worships the ground his wife walks on. But Carleigh treats Damon like a trophy husband, allowing her friends to salivate over him and disrespect their happy home. Damon has dreams beyond his six-figure corporate job, and Carleigh views his life aspirations as a joke. Her selfish nature makes Damon wonder if he made the right decision when he asked for her hand in marriage.
When a tragic event causes Brooke’s and Damon’s lives to intersect, truths unfold as they begin to reflect on their own relationships.
In this provocative tale of love and heartbreak, Zane explores what happens when you cater to your emotional well-being and discover the meaning of unconditional love…or, rather, experience a total eclipse of the heart.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Zane is the author of Addicted, The Sex Chronicles, Gettin’ Buck Wild, The Heat Seekers, The Sisters of APF, Shame on It All, Nervous, Skyscraper, Afterburn, and Love Is Never Painless and is also the editor of Chocolate Flava and Caramel Flava. She is the publisher of Strebor Books, an imprint of Atria Books/Simon & Schuster, and lives in the Washington, D.C., area with her family.
Visit her website at www.eroticanoir.com.
Good morning Zane and thank you for joining us today!!
Good morning and thank you for joining us today!!!
Hey hey hey everyone! Join me as I welcome Zane back to RAWSISTAZ! We haven’t seen you around in quite a while Zane, but I’m glad you were able to join us for our Holiday Book Challenge. Please tell us when you decided to write Total Eclipse of the Heart and why.
Everyone else…jump in! We’ll be in and out throughout the day with discussion questions.
-Tee
I started TEH at the beginning to 2008 and then, like most of my novels, set it aside until about six months ago, when I decided what my true purpose was for writing the book. I always have to feel that purpose before I can complete a book. I wanted TEH to be one of the greatest love stories ever told. One that clearly defined how the choices we make in life affect us.
So many of us have a laundry list of traits that we want in a mate but most of us do not know what traits we NEED in a mate. Brooke and Damon selected people that had what they wanted but discovered they, in each other, they found what they needed.
And this what I really enjoyed about the novel becausae it was slightly different than your other novels. It has a classy, romantic twist to it about real people with real issues.
I’m so glad you were able to find your purpose and share the story with readers. I also agree with what you said. Sometimes we find ourselves in love with the idea of being in love and don’t really know what that really entails or…what we really need in a mate.
(Sorry I’m just making it back, but I wanted to take a few minutes and try to catch up, but I’ll be back tonight with the evening crew too.)
-Tee
Zane,
Hope I’m not too late with this question, but when did you decide on the title of this book? Did you already know, or did it sort of evolved once you started writing?
Brenda
I felt the title was appropriate because the two main characters literally experience an eclipse of their hearts as they meet. They are so compatible that it is scary and they enhance one another, which is what I believe people should do in a relationship.
Zane,
What was your inspiration for writing TEotH? I loved it. I loved the fact this novel took a slight turn than your other novels.
LIFE was my inspiration for writing TEH. I had recently been in a relationship with a shallow-minded man and I wanted to write a book about how shallowness can truly ruin relationships. That is why I made Carleigh be so concerned about Damon’s looks and why I made Patrick so critical about Brooke’s weight. Then, of course, Damon’s disability took it to an entirely different level.
A few years back, here in MD, a couple was headed to their honeymoon and someone through a stone from an overpass into their car. The woman was disfigured and her husband ended up divorcing her and remarrying, even though he had just professed to love her for life. That truly disturbed me.
Wow…that is awful
How terrible! Makes you think about what we call love.
Brenda
Why is it that men are so fickle that way? Most women will be there through disability, unemployment, imprisonment…. it’s a rare case when it’s the other way around.
That is terrible. That wasn’t love in my book
Just ridiculous!!! How can you profess your love in sickness and health and the moment things change your done.
I really liked that you showed it from the man’s POV vs having him as the one who wanted the show piece. It definitely makes you realize that while men and women are different, it is possible to have the same feelings about things. I loved Damon’s character and Carleigh? I didn’t like her from jump. Sorry, but I am NOT going to let another woman tell me what she’d like to do to my man. That’s some craziness.
And that’s so sad about the couple, yet it’s not. She didn’t need to be with him.
-Tee
Tee, You are so right. I couldn’t believe she let her “friends” do that and then allowed them back after her husband told her what had been done.
Good morning Zane! Thank you for joining us today. I loved Total Eclipse of the Heart. I’m going to jump right in, feet first with a burning question…where did you get the phrase “kiss my monkey”? Key on the word monkey?
Brenda
Brenda,
Like so many of the phrases that I put in my books, that is a phrase that I often say in real life. I got “Kiss my monkey!†from one of my best friends, who would often say it to me on the phone. I thought it was hilarious and since then, about two years ago, I often say it myself.
Zane,
I just thought that phrase was sooo funny. I even told a couple of friends about it and suggested they read the book.
Brenda
I can’t imagine you saying this, Brenda. LOL!!! But I will admit, once she said it the second time, it was definitely something I’d remember. The first time, I didn’t think so because even though Patrick’s mother was being mean, I didn’t want her to disrespect her or act in a manner that would’ve given credence to the woman’s thought of her being low-class.
-Tee
LOL @Tee…imagine it.
Brenda
Discussions Questions:
1. Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her?
2. Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers?
3/ Did Carliegh ever see view Damon as more than a trophy husband?
1. Patrick was in love with Brooke but his need for control overshadowed that love. A lot of controlling men have deep feelings for their women but, due to things in their past, need to feel like they have the upperhand at all times.
2. I do not believe that people should do anything that makes them uncomfortable sexually.
3. Carleigh loved Damon but she was very shallow and did feel it vital that all other women be sexually attracted to her man as well. There are a lot of people, both male and female, who feel that way.
1. I don’t think Patrick had any love for Brooke. He was abusive and only trying to satisfy his own needs at her expense.
2. You should never do ANYTHING you’re not comfortable with in a relationship…that goes for sex, money,, vacations, purchasing a home…anything.
3. I don’t think a shallow perspective has the depth required to love. If you only “love” someone for what you can see and hold tangibly in your hand, are you really loving?
I agree with these comments. In fact I have had a Patrick in my life when I was young and it was no fun. He ended up beating me up even when he had other women in his life he was dating. The punk. He was a “QUE”. Love shouldnt hurt.
Sorry to hear this Linda!! Do you think you’d be where you are today had you not experienced it?
To answer the questions:
I actually think it was a bit of both. Yes, I think Patrick was in love with Brooke as much as he knew how to be. Yes, he was controlling and all that, but I did think he thought he loved her. Losing that control is what I think made him feel he couldn’t live without her.
No, sexually or otherwise should one compromise if they’re uncomfortable.
Again, I think Carleigh thought she loved Damon and saw him more than just a trophy husband, but when it comes to vain people, I really don’t think they KNOW how they are…not really. And, if they do, they don’t care. I think she loved him, but she loved all the things that made him who he was more.
You know Tee, having had that experience helped me to realize the signs for future relationships. still not perfect but I know what I WONT do…
I heard that, Linda!
-Tee
1. Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her? No I don’t think he was truly in love with her. He did want to control her.
2. Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers? No I don’t. The pleasure is suppose to be enjoyed by both and if one of them is not comfortable doing something then the fulfillment is one-sided leaving the other person friustrated.
3/ Did Carliegh ever view Damon as more than a trophy husband? Nope
1. Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her?
I think he cared for her, but didn’t know how to express his feelings for her. With his parents for example how could he?
2. Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers? No.
3/ Did Carliegh ever see view Damon as more than a trophy husband? Maybe at the beginning. But towards the end no.
1. Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her?
I do feel Patrick was in love with Brooke. He just expressed his love is the way he viewed it growing up. Just like in real life, you do what you see.
2. Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers?
No, not necessarily. You do at time have to make sacrifices. It’s not every time my husband wants to have sex that I particularly interested and vice verse. We do have to grin and bare things. I thinks we should try new things sometime, cause you never know you may like it. I don’t feel if it’s something painful or degrading, but a little something to keep the spice in your love life.
3/ Did Carliegh ever see view Damon as more than a trophy husband?
The same with Patrick. She is only doing what she too witnessed growing up. Also with help she will learn what true love really is.
Thanks for having me for this chat. I am so glad to be here.
Brenda,
Like so many of the phrases that I put in my books, that is a phrase that I often say in real life. I got “Kiss my monkey!” from one of my best friends, who would often say it to me on the phone. I thought it was hilarious and since then, about two years ago, I often say it myself.
So, how much of you was in the book? There were some funny lines that I could see you saying…easily.
That part about the body parts shifting after Brooke’s accident was FUNNY!!
-Tee
A lot of me is in this book, as in all of my books. Many of the things that happen are things that I have experienced or seen someone experience. And, of course, my outlook on a lot of situations is dead on.
Patrick got on my dang nerve wanting his ‘medicine’. I kept hoping she just bite him, LOL!
What did you think about Carliegh and her superficial values that she posessed?
She was wrong on so many levels, I lost count. The pill thing was a bit much to handle the first time around.
What did you think about Jordan her chasing Damon and denying it once confronted?
She was low without self worth of a woman to go after her friends husband.
LOL, Jaime, Patrick and his medicine was an inside joke for me.
The argument that I wrote between Damon, Carleigh, and Jordan was to show how sometimes when we say something to our mates, they hear the complete opposite. Damon was clearly saying that Jordan had been trying to sleep with him but he refused. Yet, Carleigh took it to mean that he was cheating on her with Jordan and came after him with the knife.
Yep, cause girlfriend automically flipped and heard they had an affair. She didn’t listen to what he actually said. Then she forgave the hussy and remained friends with her.
I’m sorry, I’m going to say it again, but I did not like Carleigh. For her to switch things up like that REALLY bothered me. And then to stay friends with Jordan? No way is that going to happen. I believe in forgiving and moving on, but there is no way I’d still be friends with someone who tried to sex up my man. That’s just not acceptable. And her pulling the knife on him too? ROFL…okay, it was funny, but I was too through.
Then when he was rolling to the festival with the 3 of them? Would anyone really do that? I wanted to slap Damon right then and there. They could’ve rolled, but they would have NOT been in my car. I loved his cracks at Jordan though…lol.
-Tee
I loved that Damon referred to her as the snake, cause that’s what she truly was. I agree Tee I wouldn’t have went out anywhere with her, but then again he was willing to anything for Carleigh at that point.
That’s because Carleigh loved Damon but she wasn’t in love with him…JMO
Good Morning, Zane, All~
I had a time getting in here, I have just started to read Total Eclispe of The Heart, but I am loving it~ my plan is to read more today and come back later and post comments, I will check throughout to see what everyone else is saying~
Merry CHRISTmas
angelia
Thanks, Angelia.
Angelia, thanks for coming! Please let me know what type of problems you were having getting in today. I’ve been in constant contact with tech support and haven’t had any problems today. You can email me directly.
-Tee
Zane
What blue me away was the ending…..Brooke and Damon being an interracial couple.
Now I assumed that Damon was African American, although you never indicated in the novel. You know, how many Caucasian have the name Damon…LOL!!! You’re indirect description of him just made me assume that he was.
I intentionally tried to throw everyone off with the way the characters spoke, their names, etc. Honestly, I have never decided who is white and who is black. For me, it never mattered and that was really the point of the book.
And, it shouldn’t matter! I wish more people would realize this when looking for a book to read.
-Tee
So true Tee b/c I’ll read any book that catches my eye with an interesting plot….no matter who the author is.
Same here! Though I do admit these days I focus on catching up on the Af-Am titles available. I really love titles that transcends racial lines–good ole human stories.
-Tee
You’re right. It shouldn’t matter. What I did, was just imagine them to be who I wanted them to be as I read. And, even in my mind, race did not enter into it.
Brenda
I wasn’t bothered by it. I had my thoughts throughout the book as I read. I did find it intriguing that we never knew who was what.
Race never matters to me, just give me so realistic characters that get me caught up and I am good~ I read across genre and ethnicity of characters~
And to answer Q number two, one should nver do anything sexually they dont wish too, but they CAN reserve the right to change their minds~ just saying hee hee
LOL @ Angelia
Sharon after being married 31 1/2 years I have change my mind on many things ~~~winking~~~
LOL…Sistah..you gotta do what you gotta do!!! LOL!!!
I disagree. Once I found out it was an interracial couple it through me for a loop. I t changed a lot of what I felt throughout the book. While it shouldn’t matter what race we are, there are crucial issue people of different races have to deal with. With that said, I love the book initially because I felt they were cut from the same fabric. Not saying it necessarily had to be a black couple, but a couple with the same background.
Hi areadingsister,
What kind of things changed for you about how you felt about the book after you found out the races were different?
-Tee
LOL @ Angelia! There’s that wisdom shining through.
-Tee
“Race never matters to me, just give me so realistic characters that get me caught up and I am good~ I read across genre and ethnicity of characters”
I agree Angelia. A good story is a good story and should be read by all no matter what race.
Hey all!
If you’re responding to someone directly, hit “Reply†under their comment as it’ll keep the discussion/thread a bit cleaner. Post directly in the comment box, if you’re starting a new question or comment.***
Thanks!
-Tee
My favorite character in the book was Brooke because she’s struggling with weight issues and I can identify with her.
Who is your favorite character?
I would have to say my favorite character was Damon. He was very laid back, caring and protective. In the beginning I viewed him as a pushover but after reading further, I noticed it was just his nature to be non-confrontational. Carleigh was a t-r-i-p. I really admired the way he handled the disability and didn’t let it ruin his life and wallow in self-pity.
I agree I could love a Damon like person.
I liked Destiny and Tony. Tony was a nut and brought some humor to the show that’s for sure.
Whew! Definitely been there with Brook and even had issues in a relationship as a result of it. Thankfully it didn’t take my power from me for too long. While the experience was hurtful, I learned from it.
Brooke was my favorite too, but I also liked Damon.
Did I say I DID NOT like Carleigh?
-Tee
I understand! You didn’t like Carliegh, LOL!!!!
Nope, not one lick!
-Tee
Damon was my favorite. You don’t see me like him in books (and sometimes real life) these days but I could see my SO in him so it was a good feeling.
Sounds like you need to take up romance, Criss.
-Tee
Sharon, Brooke was my favorite character for the same reason.
Zane
What was the motive for having Damon start a dating website?
I have a lot of readers who are disabled. Many people overlook the fact that they have the same wants, desires and needs as everyone else. Both of the web sites in the book actually exist. I started them and not for monetary reasons. They are both free dating web sites. I believe that soul mates exist for everyone and they may not necessarily be in the same state.
Summer…it was nice that she was able to find someone who loved her for herself, although she felt it would never happen.
This was one of the first things I wondered when I saw the sites. I especially like the one for disabled people and that Damon’s character saw beyond his disability and how his life would change, to help other people.
-Tee
Morning Everyone,
Zane, I must say you have come back with a bang. I read TEH in one day and was thoroughly pleased. It was a twist from your normal writing and showed how talented you are as an author. Kudos and keep up the good work.
Thanks for the love, Peaches. I believe that I have truly matured and transformed as a writer in many ways. Ten years in anyone’s life is a journey. Moving forward, I hope that all of my novels will show that maturity and transformation, as well as keep my core vision.
Good Morning Zane!!! I have to admit that I have never read your books, but I promise you are one of the authors that I hear about the most! I’m looking forward to reading your work. Happy Holidays!
Thanks, Rosa. I hope that you do enjoy my writing, whenever you get a chance to read some of it. I do take my writing very seriously and have a clearly defined purpose with each of my characters and all of my books.
Thanks Zane for your comments. I can’t wait to read!
Greetings Zane!
Great to have to here. My question is:
Do you find it hard to find the time to devote to writing with all the publishing you do? How do you discipline yourself to focus on your own works? Looking for advice in that category! LOL
- Candace
Candace,
Sometimes it is easy for me to find time to write and there are often months at a time when I do no writing at all. To be honest, I write in spurts. If I wrote on a regular basis, I would be dangerous-LOL
However, when I am determined to write, as I am right now, I block everything else out and just do it. I go into a zone and lose myself in the story and the characters. That passion has to hit me before I can do it. I can honestly say that I have never sat down and written a book just to be able to say that I wrote one.
Which do you prefer writing or publishing?
For me, writing is my passion but I believe that publishing is my purpose. With the decline in book sales overall and bookstores closing right and left, it will increasingly difficult to continue to give new authors a voice in the marketplace. That is unfortunate but it is definitely a reality.
I love this:
“writing is my passion but I believe that publishing is my purpose”
-Tee
Hey Lady Zane.
Glad to see you are still doing your thing. Keep on writing mama.
Thanks, Pittershawn.
Zane,
Which of your novels is your favorite and why?
This was my first novel by Zane.
Before Total Eclipse of the Heart, it would have been difficult for me to answer that question. However, this is my favorite book to date. I feel like the issues that are explored in it are very meaningful and will hopefully make a lot of people examine the choices that they make in life.
Are we really able to predetermine what our soul mate will be like?
Is it better to seek out love or to attract it?
Will people honestly recognize the right person for them, or will they be too busy caught up in the superficial?
I don’t think we can predetermine what our soulmates will be like, but we will know once the soulmate is stirring us up in the soul.
Is it better to seek out love or to attract it?
That is a hard one to answer. If you are really ready for love then seek out love. It depends on the individual.
No, I don’t think we can predetermine our soul mates and sometimes we don’t recognize them for many, many reasons. Thankfully, I’ve never worried over superficial issues, but I’ve had my share of those who did.
I’m not sure about how you mean with seeking out love. On the prowl? No, I don’t necessarily think folks should do that, but I don’t think folks should assume everyone who comes in their life is the one. I do believe things happen in God’s time, so I guess that’s attracting it. (I wasn’t looking for my husband and we see what happened.)
-Tee
Hi, Zane. I, unfortunately, haven’t had a chance to read the book yet. It’s definitely up next. The questions you pose are very thought-provoking. I can’t wait to read the book to find out how you tackle these issues.
Zane your first Sex Chronicles is my favorite. Thanks for joining us today !
You are welcome, Linda, and you would like that book
ROFLLLLL HUSH LOL
I haven’t read the three books before this one, but I liked the psychological elements in Addicted & Nervous. Will you continue that series?
-Tee
Yes, I am writing Vengeance now, the next book after Nervous. It is a doozy too-LOL
Vengeance will be out in 2010. That is the next book after Nervous.
Zane is on Monique discussing this book and other topics !!
My favorite novel thus far is Afterburn. Still waiting on the sequel.
That’s my all time favorite book by Zane as well. Zane, I’ve heard rumors in the past about there being a sequel to Afterburn. Are these rumors true? If so, when will the book be released?
Solitaire will be out in 2010. Summer.
How do you think you would react if you found yourself in a similiar situation as Brooke and Damon?
I’ve asked a question that I can’t seem to answer myself, LOL!!!! I’ll just say this I hope I wouldn’t find myself in their situation.
I know how I would react. I would leave and have left.
I hope I would be smart enought not to be put myself there…but I couldn’t be with a person like Patrick or Carleigh.
Patrick or his dang medicine!!!!
Ditto for me! Brooke and all her going back to him was REALLY working my nerves. A second chance…maybe, but a 3rd, 4th, 5th, etc? Nope.
-Tee
I loved how this played out in the novel. Instead of just jumping into bed with each other, these two created a friendship and then ended it with the people they were with. Zane, that was one of my favorite parts because it is a much better set up than just saying if you meet your soul mate dump your mate or cheat on them. There is still a right way to do things.
I was so glad too! There were a few times when I was saying “don’t do it, don’t do it.” And, I liked that you brought up the point that leaning toward someone emotionally was a form of cheating too. Some people don’t consider it to be.
I “almost” wanted him to kick Carleigh to the curve and move on. I really DID NOT like her.
-Tee
LOL @Tee, you’ve been hating on Carleigh all day girl. But, don’t you just love it when the Carleigh’s of this world get what’s coming to them. And no, I didn’t like her either.
Brenda
I am glad that you liked it. I wanted to show that cheating is not always intentional. Sure, most people-men in particular-go out and seek outside relationships but there are times when it happens another way. I wanted to examine that.
Do you think you would have been able to forgive Jordan for her actions once you found out?
Nope!!! If she tried sleeping with my husband behind my back once, she would do it again. I have no desire to be friends with someone that is willing to sleep with a man that she knows her friend has been with.
Jordan was a hot mess. But, I blame Carleigh for the majority of that. She allowed her “friends” to sit around and fantasize about her husband. She opened the door to all the advances when she didn’t check them when it began.
I agree Peaches
I agree with Peaches as well. You have to get your friends in check. That’s why you don’t go around disussing your man’s “business” in the street.
I could probably forgive in time, but remain her friend? Nope.
And I agree that Carleigh was wrong out the gate.
-Tee
I’m catching up, so for those who are already on top of things…a few more questions:
1) How would you have reacted to Patrick’s mom if you were in Brooke’s shoes? While you may not have told her to kiss your monkey…would you have said something similar? Why or why not?
2) What about when she approached Brooke at Patrick’s house? Would you have reacted the same way as Brooke?
3) There were quite a few memorable passages in the book which would make the world a better place if everyone applied them. What were some of your favorites?
4. And, just for fun…have you ever considered killing your man?
-Tee
I will let everyone else answer the first three questions because I am curious to see what they will say. I have, without a doubt, envisioned killing men before-LOL
ROFL!! I am neither confirming or denying, but I have been told…”I’ll sleep in the basement tonight.” The funny thing is didn’t SAY a word. It was just a look.
-Tee
1) How would you have reacted to Patrick’s mom if you were in Brooke’s shoes? While you may not have told her to kiss your monkey…would you have said something similar? Why or why not? I wouldnt have much contact with her so I wouldnt have to be mean spirited to her.
2) What about when she approached Brooke at Patrick’s house? Would you have reacted the same way as Brooke? I would have just left.
3) There were quite a few memorable passages in the book which would make the world a better place if everyone applied them. What were some of your favorites?
4. And, just for fun…have you ever considered killing your man? Umm yes..the one who beat me up. The beating was severe. He broke my nose and left me scarred for life.
1) How would you have reacted to Patrick’s mom if you were in Brooke’s shoes? While you may not have told her to kiss your monkey…would you have said something similar? Why or why not? I wouldn’t be able to suppress and would hvae just let go then got on him for letting her disrespect me the way she does. I wouldn’t have told her to “kiss my monkey” although it would’ve been in my mind but I can get my point across w/o saying something of that nature.
2) What about when she approached Brooke at Patrick’s house? Would you have reacted the same way as Brooke? Yes I would have and said the same as Brooke too. But she finally got her told when she told her about her husband…I loved it!!
3) There were quite a few memorable passages in the book which would make the world a better place if everyone applied them. What were some of your favorites? When Damon told Summer “What’s for you will be with you” no matter the circumstances. When Damon told Brooke that he loved her enough to let her go.
4. And, just for fun…have you ever considered killing your man? Yep…and I watch enough crime shows to get away with it…LOL
Sharon I have been told to stop watching Snapped for this very reason.
ROFL! Too funny, Sharon, but I’m with you! Even though Brooke was wrong to out Patrick’s father to his mom, I was cheering. They both deserved it!
-Tee
1) How would you have reacted to Patrick’s mom if you were in Brooke’s shoes? While you may not have told her to kiss your monkey…would you have said something similar? Why or why not?
I would’ve kept my distance from her at all times. When I was around her and she disrespected me, I would have politely told her where to go and how to get there!
2) What about when she approached Brooke at Patrick’s house? Would you have reacted the same way as Brooke?
While I did not like her actions. I have learned a while ago not to just ignore the words that his mother, sister or any other female tells you…sometimes it’s not done in spite. I had a friend and I was infauted with her son, her exact words to me were ‘No baby girl, he’s not for you.’ At the time I thought she just didn’t want me with her son. Thankfully I listened to the words and was saved from heartbreak I would have suffered if I hadn’t listened. He was killed and at his funeral there were women lined up all over the place all claiming to be is one and only. While I was heartbroken for my friend’s loss, I wasn’t heartbroken for being a notch on his bedpost.
3) There were quite a few memorable passages in the book which would make the world a better place if everyone applied them. What were some of your favorites?
When Destiny told Brooke to be truthful with herself and admit that she had feelings for Damon and to let him know.
4. And, just for fun…have you ever considered killing your man?
Yep, him and any one else that might cross my path at the time. Thankfully I’ve never followed through with my plan. It’s the nagging feeling that I could get caught and go to jail. I can’t survive in jail, I’m a pretty thang…LOL!!! I doubt Sharon would want to have to send me cigarettes constantly so I can keep Lil and Big Coco off me. That’s why it only remains a thought…
That’s right Chica….I don’t do prison visits well….LOL
At least you’re honest…LOL!!!! I’ll stick with it being a thought!
Y’all crazy! LOL.
I answered the killing him one already, so here are my others.
1. I would not have been disrespectful by telling her to kiss my monkey or cursing, but I would’ve said what I had to say and been done with it and left. I wasn’t raised that way.
2. At the house, she never would’ve gotten in. ROFL. Sorry. Patrick wasn’t there, so what was the point?
3. Oooh, I loved two lines from both Brooke’s mom & Damon. I’m going to have to go look them up.
-Tee
One more question, and Zane, please answer.
Do you find that with books you pre-judge it based upon something of the past? I ask this because in reading various boards and posts, I realize that some people seem to want an excuse NOT to like a certain book. While others love it before they even read it.
It’s definitely interesting to watch.
-Tee
People definitely pre-judge my books and look for a reason not to like them. Some of them even condemn my work, having never read any. I think it is silly myself but it certainly happens all of the time.
While I understand you needed the sex in the book to show the character’s nature, do you think that alone is what makes people pre-judge or a combination of things?
-Tee
I think that America is still one of the most sexually repressed countries in the world and a lot of people are uncomfortable with their own sexuality. Honestly I have not heard people who have actually READ my books criticize them. Just those who hear that I write “sex books” and automatically make assumptions.
1) How would you have reacted to Patrick’s mom if you were in Brooke’s shoes? While you may not have told her to kiss your monkey…would you have said something similar? Why or why not?
2) What about when she approached Brooke at Patrick’s house? Would you have reacted the same way as Brooke?
I think Brooke handled the situation quite well. I wouldn’t have said kiss my monkey, but I would have left. You can’t make people like you.
3) There were quite a few memorable passages in the book which would make the world a better place if everyone applied them. What were some of your favorites?
I loved Damon’s admiration to his marriage. Even with all her short coming he truly put his all into it. I also loved how Zane touched on the issue of being supportive. My husband is venturing out on a couple of projects I didn’t feel were the best decision and could see a lot of myself in Carleigh with being critical and making sarcastic remarks. Right after reading this I called him asked him how things were going. I really needed to read those passages, it is going to really me on being more supportive and caution of his feelings.
4. And, just for fun…have you ever considered killing your man?
Yes I have! That’s why I watch Snapped every Monday night so I can see what those women did wrong as to not make the same mistake…LOL.
You eventually get over and realize what would I do without this person.
So, so true about the being supportive part! And it must go both ways.
-Tee
Zane
Will you be writing something similar ( a romance flair) to TEH in the near future?
Indeed, I will. The sequel to Afterburn, entitled Solitaire, is next up after Vengeance, which I am currently writing.
Afterburn is on of my favorites so I am looking forward to a sequel. Are you still planning on releasing the sequel to Shame on it All/Heat Seekers?
Yes, I still plan to write It Is What It Is
1. Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her?
I think he loved her the way he had seen love presented in his family. It wasn’t love that others would see as love but the only thing he knew as love.
2. Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers?
No. How can it be enjoyable for either of you if one person is miserable. His/Her body will respond that way too.
3/ Did Carliegh ever see view Damon as more than a trophy husband?
She didn’t and that made me mad. She had such a good man but all she cared about was how good he looked.
Zane, I’m headed out for the evening. Thank you for chatting with us today. Have a wonderful and safe holiday!!!!
Jaime, thanks so much for being here yet again today. Your support of RAWSISTAZ, the Holiday Reading Challenge and our guest authors is appreciated.
-Tee
I just got my book yesterday in mail and have not started yet and after reading some comments I can tell this is gonna be a good read….
Joyce, feel free to stop back through when you’ve read it.
For those who didn’t read the book, Brenda put together a few questions, so everyone could participate if they chose to. Feel free to answer as many or as few as you’d like…
In this book, Zane handles many relationship issues.
1. There are tons of people out there that are only involved with people because of how they look or how much the have. Have you ever been involved with a shallow person? How did that work for you?
2. Being in a relationship with a person with a physical disability has its issues as portrayed in Total Eclipse of the Heart. Could you see beyond a person’s physical disability in order to date that person or would a physical disability hinder any involvement by you? What if the situation was reversed and you were the one with a physical disability and dating?
3. What about weight issues? Some of us are struggling with weight issues and as we do, do those issues crop up in our relationships? Do we tend to look at others through eyes that are tempered by predisposed weight conditions? Are you put off by someone who doesn’t meet your weight requirements?
4. When looking for a mate, what are your deal breakers?
5. Have you ever used a dating website? Share some of your experiences.
-Tee
!. Yes had a shallow date or two but I was young and they were fine~
2. Absolutely I could see beyond a disability since being married my husband had a brief siezure disorder and had prostate cancer five years ago~ so can he I lost a kidney in 92 and love transcended all that and we are still together and healthy happy and sexyyyyy~
3.My man and I are both ‘fluffier’ than we once were_ it is ALL GOOD, we are to grown to be about that~
4. Deal breaker is harming a child or woman
I’ve never had to deal with that…but that’s a good one.
Love the “fluffier” part!!
1. There are tons of people out there that are only involved with people because of how they look or how much the have. Have you ever been involved with a shallow person? How did that work for you?
I’ve been involved with a shallow person. When I gained weight they were out of there but then when they heard how good I was doing financially via their mother, he was knocking at my door. That’s when I held on to the motto, ” an ex is an ex for a reason and shall remain an ex.”
2. Being in a relationship with a person with a physical disability has its issues as portrayed in Total Eclipse of the Heart. Could you see beyond a person’s physical disability in order to date that person or would a physical disability hinder any involvement by you? What if the situation was reversed and you were the one with a physical disability and dating?
I wouldn’t call it a disability but I did date a guy who had an “inch worm” but I liked him enough that I didn’t end the relationship because of it. Our relationship actually ended more because of his attitude not his lack to please me in other areas.
3. What about weight issues? Some of us are struggling with weight issues and as we do, do those issues crop up in our relationships? Do we tend to look at others through eyes that are tempered by predisposed weight conditions? Are you put off by someone who doesn’t meet your weight requirements?
I’ve been struggling with weight issues for years and there’s only been one relationship I can think of that it hindered. Did it hurt, yes, but I got over it.
4. When looking for a mate, what are your deal breakers?
A chronic liar is #1 on my list…someone who is insensitive to others is also a deal breaker.
5. Have you ever used a dating website? Share some of your experiences.
I signed up for e_harmony because of their extensive profile breakdown. I didn’t date anyone off the site but it helped me in my offline dating life.
1. There are tons of people out there that are only involved with people because of how they look or how much the have. Have you ever been involved with a shallow person? How did that work for you?
I have…I’ve been with guys who’ve told me that they’d dump me if I gained weight, was difigured, I’ve even heard a guy say He’d marry me if my hair was longer!!! You know what I did….kicked them to the CURB!
2. Being in a relationship with a person with a physical disability has its issues as portrayed in Total Eclipse of the Heart. Could you see beyond a person’s physical disability in order to date that person or would a physical disability hinder any involvement by you? What if the situation was reversed and you were the one with a physical disability and dating?
Honestly, I don’t know. I’ve never been faced with that situation. Maybe I have dated someone with a disability, and didn’t even know.
3. What about weight issues? Some of us are struggling with weight issues and as we do, do those issues crop up in our relationships? Do we tend to look at others through eyes that are tempered by predisposed weight conditions? Are you put off by someone who doesn’t meet your weight requirements?
Weight is starting to be a problem for me. I’m gaining and gaining. My last boyfriend suggested I go to the gym. I’ve never let weight affect how I view a man, but I do think some men let it distort how they view women.
4. When looking for a mate, what are your deal breakers?
I can’t take lies.
I don’t like when a guy’s too involved with his female friends.
Someon who has no spirituality or connection with God.
5. Have you ever used a dating website? Share some of your experiences.
I have….I will NEVER do that again.
One guy must have googled me and showed up on my job. I didn’t tell him where I worked or anything. He took context clues from our chats, looked up where I worked, and was there waiting for me when I got in.
Christina, oh my. I know that freaked you out. The internet in the wrong hands can be dangerous.
OMG,,,,you hve no idea. I was driving around town, scared to go home! No more internet dating for me!!!
OMGoodness…now that would have FREAKED me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay! OMG…crazies are everywhere.
I’ve never done the internet dating.
-Tee
A special thanks to Zane and everyone who stopped through to chat with us today. There may be a few more comments, but I didn’t want to sign out without extending my appreciation.
I hope those of you who didn’t finish on time will share your thoughts when you’re done.
-Tee
Good afternoon Zane, Tee and All,
I loved the book.
Do you believe Patrick was in love with Brooke or was he with her because he wanted to control her?
I think Patrick in his own way loved Brooke. Controlling to him was his way of showing love.
Do you feel that people should do things sexually that make them feel uncomfortable in order to satisfy their lovers?
No, because if it’s not enjoyable for both people why do it.
Did Carliegh ever see view Damon as more than a trophy husband?
I think she loved him, but she was also about appearances and wanting others to want what she has.
Thanks for all of the love and support. I really appreciated the chat.
Happy Holidays!
Zane
Zane,
Thanks so much for spending the day with us. We are all looking forward to the new books due out in 2010. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you.
Brenda
Thanks Zane for accepting Tee’s invitation to chat with us today. May you be continually Blessed with your gift of writing…Merry Christmas and a prosperous New Year to you and your family!!!